QUEER CARE CONNECTIONS

View Original

Dear Sunnie, heteronormativity is killing me…

Bright natural dining room nook with vases plates and fruits on the table.

Micro Aggressions are still Agressions…

When can’t process all the aggressions that come their way, it may be possible for them to rationally believe LGBTQ people are ok but internally it will be extremely difficult and acutely painful for them to believe in their goodness.

When you have been told for many years that being gay is a mental health issue getting mental health care Don’t worry about sounding professional. Sound like you. There are over 1.5 billion websites out there, but your story is what’s going to separate this one from the rest. If you read the words back and don’t hear your own voice in your head, that’s a good sign you still have more work to do.

Be clear, be confident and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.